Betty Bayo’s Mother Wants Her Body Exhumed For Fresh Postmortem, Claims Tash Was Abusive Husband

The death of gospel singer Betty Bayo has taken a dark turn with her mother calling for the body to be exhumed for a fresh postmortem while making damning allegations against the late musician’s husband, Hiram Gitau, alias Tash.

Speaking from her home in the United States during a Facebook Live session with YouTuber Shiru Wa Oakland on Thursday night, Mama Betty delivered a tearful but firm message that has sent shockwaves through the gospel music industry and beyond. She wants answers, and she wants them now.

“A postmortem must be carried out on my daughter’s body so that we can have clarity on what exactly killed her,” the grieving mother declared, her voice breaking with emotion. She flatly rejected the leukaemia diagnosis that had been widely reported as the cause of Betty’s death on November 10, 2025.

According to Mama Betty, her daughter did not die from cancer.

Instead, she claims Betty died from severe head injuries after Tash allegedly beat her badly in what she described as a violent marriage that had spiraled out of control in the weeks before the singer’s death.

The mother painted a picture of a relationship marred by abuse, financial exploitation and fear.

She recalled receiving a frantic phone call from Betty weeks before the tragedy. “She cried to me on the phone, saying, ‘Mum, who did you leave me with? I’m not safe. Huyu ataniua,’” Mama Betty recounted, using Betty’s exact words which translate to “This one will kill me.”

These were not empty threats or marital squabbles, according to the mother.

She claims the marriage had become a financial nightmare for Betty, with Tash systematically draining money from her music earnings and businesses. Mama Betty alleges he used these funds to purchase two heavy duty lorries in America, each valued at approximately eight million Kenyan shillings, a total of sixteen million shillings that rightfully belonged to her daughter.

The final breaking point, according to Mama Betty, came when a drunk Tash allegedly assaulted Betty and demanded an additional five million shillings. “That was the last fight. After that beating, Betty told me she feared for her life,” she told Shiru Wa Oakland as viewers watched in stunned silence.

But the allegations don’t end there.

Mama Betty raised suspicions about how quickly Tash appeared at Kenyatta University Referral Hospital after Betty’s death to check in her body, despite having allegedly returned to the United States after they separated. “How did he suddenly arrive in Kenya so fast?” she asked, implying he may have had prior knowledge of what was coming.

The mother also accused Tash of withholding critical documents including Betty’s death certificate and even her own national identity card, effectively blocking the family from accessing bank accounts or completing legal processes.

This has left the family in limbo, unable to properly settle Betty’s estate or secure the welfare of her two young children, Heaven and Skylar.

Perhaps the most shocking allegation came when Mama Betty described Tash’s behaviour immediately after the burial on November 25 in Kisaruni, Narok County. “On the very night we buried my daughter, Tash brought other women into the home and slept in Betty’s matrimonial bed,” she alleged, a claim that prompted gasps from the interview host.

She further revealed that a pre-burial family agreement for Betty’s sisters to raise the two young children had been overturned. “After the burial he changed his mind and told us to go to court if we want the children,” she said, expressing deep concern especially for Betty’s daughter who she feels is in danger.

In a surprising twist, Mama Betty praised Pastor Victor Kanyari, Betty’s ex-husband and father of her first two children, Sky and Danivictor, for consistently supporting his kids throughout the ordeal. “I want to thank Prophet Kanyari because he has never abandoned his children. I’m begging him to go to Betty’s house and check on Heaven and Skylar because they are not safe,” she pleaded.

Mama Betty urged Kanyari to go to the police, obtain an OB number, and get permission to take all the children from Tash’s house. She wants Kanyari to take full custody of at least his biological children, insisting they need to be removed from what she considers a dangerous environment.

The interview also touched on fractured friendships. Mama Betty expressed deep disappointment that Shiru Wa GP, widely regarded as Betty’s best friend and confidante who was with her in her final moments, has not returned any calls since the death. “Shiru wa GP knows everything that happened in that marriage. I have tried reaching her many times, but she is avoiding me,” she said softly, hinting at possible knowledge of deeper secrets.

Family spokesperson Pastor Moses Njoroge confirmed that lawyers are preparing court applications to compel the release of Betty’s death certificate and to secure temporary custody of the children pending investigations. “Mama Betty has suffered enough. We support her call for truth and justice,” he told journalists.

The late Betty Bayo posing for a photo during a past event.

It’s worth noting that these explosive allegations come nearly a month after Betty’s burial and contradict the official narrative that had been accepted by the public. At the time of her death, family representatives, including Murang’a Woman Representative Betty Maina, confirmed that the singer had died from complications arising from leukaemia and excessive bleeding while receiving treatment at Kenyatta National Hospital.

Betty’s close friend Shiru Wa GP had also given detailed accounts of Betty’s final days, describing how she was first admitted to RFH Hospital in mid-October after feeling unwell, then transferred to AAR Hospital where her condition worsened before finally being moved to Kenyatta National Hospital where she passed away. Shiru’s accounts painted a picture of a woman fighting cancer, not fleeing abuse.

The question now becomes, why is Mama Betty making these allegations nearly a month after her daughter was buried? Why didn’t these concerns about abuse and suspicious circumstances come up before or immediately after Betty’s death? And why would the family, including Betty’s close friend Shiru Wa GP, have gone along with the leukaemia narrative if there were doubts about the cause of death?

These are questions that only a fresh, independent postmortem can answer. Mama Betty insists she will not rest until such an examination is conducted. “My daughter deserves justice. The truth must come out,” she declared.

The mother revealed that the initial postmortem conducted at Kenyatta University Teaching and Referral Hospital had been rushed and performed without full family consent. Close relatives confirmed to local journalists that the preliminary report citing organ failure linked to leukaemia had left many questions unanswered, especially given Betty’s public posts showing good health just days before her sudden deterioration.

As for Tash, he has so far remained relatively quiet about these latest allegations. In late November, he spoke publicly for the first time since Betty’s death at an event organized by Kikuyu singer Ngaruiya Junior, addressing online bullying he had endured but making no mention of abuse allegations. He described Betty as his late wife and expressed gratitude to fellow musicians who had supported the family during the difficult period.

Legal experts have weighed in on the succession battle brewing over Betty’s estate. Lawyer and activist Justina Wamae has called for increased legal awareness, noting that since Betty and Tash had only a traditional Kikuyu ruracio wedding in December 2021 and not a registered civil or religious marriage, Tash may have limited legal standing as next of kin. This gives Mama Betty, as the biological mother, stronger legal ground to control burial permits, death certificates and succession matters.

What is clear is that Betty Bayo’s death has transformed from a tragic loss of a gospel music icon into a potential murder mystery with allegations of domestic violence, financial fraud, and suspicious circumstances. Two young children remain caught in the middle, while a grieving nation waits for answers that only a thorough postmortem and police investigation can provide.

The case also highlights a darker reality that many women face behind closed doors, even those in the public eye. Betty Bayo was known for hits like “Usinipite Mungu” and “11th Hour,” songs of hope, faith and divine timing. Ironically, it appears she may have run out of time to escape what her mother describes as an abusive marriage.

As pressure mounts on investigators to either debunk or substantiate these heartbreaking allegations, one thing remains certain: this story is far from over. The ghost of Betty Bayo will not rest until her mother gets the answers she desperately seeks, even if it means digging up her body from its resting place in Kisaruni, Narok County.